Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Resolutions and Reflections



This past year has been a bit of a blur...and I'm determined to make this my last blurry year. I've spent my whole life being caught up in doing this, doing that, going here and going there, and I so rarely sit back and reflect on what I'm doing NOW.

Thus, my resolutions this year is to be content. To be at peace with what I have, and what I don't have, what I'm doing, and what I'm not doing, and not to really care what anyone else thinks.

Sounds simple, right?

I wish it were.

I have a feeling this is going to be a toughie, but I'm going to make it happen. I rarely make resolutions, because I cannot stand resolving to lose weight, eat less chocolate, or buy fewer things and have it last only a month, leaving you feeling empty and weak for not being able to stick it out. My last good resolution was many years ago, when I resolved to be nice.

I know, those of you who know me are thinking, but Katy is always so nice. Well, no, I'm not, and I certainly haven't always been like this. Those who've known me a long time (like, very long) know that for a long time, I was not nice. At all. To anyone. I took great pleasure in making people cry, and it came back to me big time, and in big ways. Karma's a bitch, right? So I resolved in, I believe 2000, to be nice. And like a switch, once I'd made that shift in my head, I made it in life also. And I've since had much better luck in life, and been a much happier person. Sure, I'm still snarky, and I can be downright nasty, but by and large, I'm a nice person.

So, I want to be a content person as well. Why? For one, I have nothing to NOT be content about. A great husband, a sweet daughter, a fun dog, a lovely home, clothing, food, internet access: the basics. For another, not being content is costing me, in both money and time. I spend time discontent with that I have, so that I have less to appreciate what I do have. I spend money trying to fill my life with things I think might make me content, but they never do. I spend energy wishing for a larger house, a quieter life, less debt, and none of that is going to change unless I (we) change it. And, I think, the first step to that is being content with what we have.

Resolution 2009: Be Content.

What's your resolution?

Sunday, December 28, 2008

It's melting!




Finally...I love the snow and all, and it is pretty, but I'm so glad it's melting away. Don't get me wrong, it's still cold up here, but the snow is such a pain to get around in, and not at all fun to drive in, and while I would have loved to hibernate the days away, alas, we needed to eat, and get out, because I was going insane (as was the kiddo). So, we frolicked outside one last time, built one last snow castle, and mommy took pictures of the snow melting from the trees.








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Thursday, December 25, 2008

What's up next?

Well, RE's birthday, that's what.

And what's on the list for the little monkey?

A new mei tai (her old one is awfully small)
A wee wonderfuls doll
A black apple inspired doll
A table fort
Some doll clothes

And as for the rest of my list?

A blanket for Abby
Napkins for the S family
Hemming sleeves on an old shrunken sweater for RE
Gabe's bday present, just a little late

Oh, and RE's birthday party, which will be rather low key this year. At least, the Seattle one will be. The Cali party will no doubt be nutty.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and a FABulous New Year!



Enjoy the photos of our very own White Christmas up here in the Pac NW. Anyone wanna come visit?

Present Orgy 2008

Aftermath.
Breakfast. Mommy and daddy need coffee.
Woohoo! A camera!

The doll house. A big hit.
From Santa...a GAME!

A green sweater for mommy.
A green shirt for Ryan.

A green sweater for daddy.
And nope, this was NOT planned.

I do love the holidays. I've been alternating coffee and champagne all day, and eating croissants, eggs, sausage and potatoes. For dinner: chicken pot pie, a specialty of the Afro house. RE is thoroughly enjoying her new toys, including her new art supplies, so she can go "arting". She also got a tutu, a cute new sweater, a dollhouse, and some clothes (which she was less than thrilled about). Michael got me a Zune, which rocks, and I'm super stoked to download new music and even some movies. All of my handmade gifts were super well-received, and I know RE will enjoy the ones I am planning to make for her upcoming birthday.

I hope you all had lovely holidays, and are enjoying the time spent with family, and if you're having one, a white Christmas! We are, and with our fire in the fireplace, and cozy feeling inside, we're enjoying barely stepping outside!

Merry merry and a happy happy to you all!

Monday, December 22, 2008

Cupcakes!

2 for Izzy and 3 for Ann. Happy Birthdays girls!


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Hand-painted Scarves

I plotted out this project months ago, found knit fabric on sale and bought a ton of it. My current favorite scarf is a jersey knit, and I've been thinking about painting or stencilling on it for a while, but couldn't decide what to do. So, for a holiday gift for a few family members, I decided to dye this fabric and use the freezer paper stencil technique. The tree, to me, represents the bareness of winter, but on a scarf is all warmy and toasty and comfy and cozy.


These ones, in a way, represent my desire for spring (I know, today is only the first day of winter; it's going to be a long few months)...they started out with just the green grasses, then I decided that they needed blooms, and for some reason, orange just felt right. I used the bottom of a paint bottle for the big blooms, and a crayon dipped in paint for the little ones.



I've really been enjoying creating these gifts for friends, family and the little people in my life...I feel like these gifts mean more to me to give because I've actually spent tons of time on them, and infused them with a little bit of me. And really, they're pretty much one of a kind...or in a series of sorts...wearable art!
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Sunday, December 21, 2008

Kid Mei Tai

I made one of these for RE ages ago, and then another for our friend's daughter whose little sister has now requested one for her birthday, too! This one was made with velcro at the waist, and on the body and straps, in the hopes that this 3 year old will be able to do it herself (or at least mostly). RE wouldn't wear it long enough to try it herself, though she did deem it "comfy" and told me that she really liked it and needed to share it with Ann (which to her, means, she should get to keep it). Maybe, if she's good, she'll get one for her birthday, too.

For those who are playing along at home, measurements are:
Body: 11x14"
Top straps: 3x35"
Waist straps: 3x14"

Once it's all sewn together, grab your favorite 3 year old to decide where to place the velcro. I just winged it, as I do most things, so I don't have specific measurements on this part.


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Holiday Memories

So, at this time of year, I always get to musing about holidays past, and the tales that go along with them...as I search for the perfect gift for RE, I realized that I cannot recall a single actual gift given to me for the holidays as a child. Not a single one. But what I do recall is the moments, and of those, I recall so many.

I remember my little brother, every year, running up and down our long hallway shouting "it's Christmas, it's Christmas", usually well before the sun was up.

Our handmade, by my mom, stockings that all coordinated and matchy-matchy...and always one for the dog, too.

Our Christmas tree...each year, brought down from the rafters the day after Thanksgiving, the wire branches fluffed and filled out. Decorated with a melange of ornaments made in school by my brother and me, purchased here and there, each with a story, made by mom when she and dad had no money and need to decorate their "charlie brown" tree, but so many had stories to go along with them. Topped by the "Pregnant Angel", whose irony I didn't fully understand until I was much older...she perched atop our very fluffy tree with her skirt poofed out, making her look quite preggers.

Midnight mass, with my mom, singing Christmas Carols with the Catholics at St. Josephs and looking for Santa's sleigh in the night sky.

Going to Gran and Pappy's and trying to hard to sleep while Pappy watched John Wayne movies at top volume and Granny's tree with the real tinsel on it that was so pretty and so messy.

Hanukkah menorahs, lit and sparkling, each night and latkes, so yummy and served up with applesauce and sour cream. Picking wax off the menorah and playing dreidl with Mike. Hanukkah parties with all of our friends, and Jay taking a picture of his butt.

Jammies, sleepy parents, and a few very excited kids...I couldn't ever understand why my parents were so tired on Christmas morning. Now I get it: no presents until mommy and daddy get coffee.

Watching White Christmas with mom, singing along to all of the songs. Watching The Nutcracker with the whole family...only to have daddy come out dancing just like Mikhail. Only not as good. ;)

And now that we're on our own, we have new memories. Our first Christmas tree, purchased at a lot on Aurora Ave, followed up with a trip to K-Mart for a tree stand. Lights all over our apartment, making our Coors Light wallpaper border shine and sparkle. Our disco ball perched jauntily atop the tree (it's there every year!).

Our teeny faux Christmas tree, in a pot, sitting on top of our fireplace in our second apartment, which was too small for a real tree. And our Hanukkah party, complete with drunken friends, brisket and latkes. YUM!

Our new home, our first "real" home, and a real Christmas tree, shoved into the trunk of the Civic. Finding our own ornaments with stories...making our own little memories. The year after we were married (holiday 2004), we wrapped all our gifts with silver paper with white stars (still using that damn paper, damn Costco) and Pottery Barn green cotton ribbon. When we joked that we had enough of that ribbon from wedding gifts that we'd be using it, a friend who worked for PB snagged us a whole roll of it! We STILL have green PB ribbon coming out the wahoo.

And this year, with RE, taking out our little faux "charlie brown" tree and lighting it up in her room, decorating it with ornaments from Michael's holidays past, and lighting up her tiny face that the elves came and brought her a special tree. And pulling out all of our special ornaments: the ones Tammy sent us while she was in Germany, the ones we purchased the year she was in Iraq, so she could be "with us" on our tree, and the Gabriel and Ryan ornaments I have from their first Christmases. Just need one for miss Izzy! The "2004" ornament with our wedding picture, the vibrant red, orange and yellow chuppah glowing against the blue sky. The "2006" ornament with Ryan in candy cane striped leggies sitting under the tree. Maybe there will be a "2010" ornament with another sib? We'll see. The "peace" ornament Alyssa gave us one year, my "snowbabies" ornaments that I so treasure. Our beautiful, silver, modern menorah that glows to prettily with all eight nights lit up.

And in all this remembering, what I remember most of all is that feeling...that the holidays really and truly are about spending time with friends and family and those who mean so much to all of us...Our friends ARE our family, and they mean as much to us as though we were actually related. I know we all know it, and I know we all get caught up in the gifting, and partly, it's because of how much so many of us enjoy an excuse to find something fun for those we love, but in the end, it really IS about that feeling. And as Mastercard so eloquently puts it, that is "priceless."

To all of you, no matter what you celebrate, whether it's Hanukkah, Solstice or Christmas, we wish you a very happy one, and a very merry one, and may your homes be as warm as your hearts.

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

An icky, sick to my stomach feeling (CPSIA legislation)

This letter is in response to a piece of legislation that will go into effect as of February 12, 2009, and will seriously affect all small businesses, and customers of small businesses. If you truly value the ability to shop locally, shop small, and buy unique, handmade, handcrafted, or mama-made products for your kids, you should be up in arms about this. I urge you to write to your legislators about this. Please feel free to alter this letter to your personal needs and be sure to send a snail mail copy. You can see how your Senators voted on this bill here. This is very real, and could rather lead to a National Bankruptcy Day. As if the economy needs more trouble. I'm all for eliminating lead in childrens' toys, but for God's sake, this is a ridiculous piece of legislation that was poorly thought out and hastily passed. For more information, and a whole lot of legalese about this, you can see the info page from the CPSC.

Also, to those of you with blogs, facebook, myspace, twitter, etc, please forward this along. I urge you to help me keep small businesses (including such fun things like Etsy artists, afloat).

To my Senators, and beyond.


I writing to you to express my deep concern for the impending enforcement of the new Consumer Product Safety Commission Improvement Act. While I realize that product safety, especially for children, is of utmost importance, this particular legislation is reactionary and holds potentially devastating economic ramifications.

I personally operate a very small business selling baby carriers and other baby accessories - some made by American companies and some imported from Europe. Under these new regulations, small manufacturers (and crafters who sell as a side business) would be required to submit each piece or lot to prohibitively expensive government approved third party testing. From what I understand, each test would cost anywhere from $100-400, for each COMPONENT of the of the carrier, doll, clothing, cloth diaper, etc.. That's a test for thread, buttons and each fabric. Considering the fact that each piece is made from completely different fabrics, it would effectively eliminate the ability of small manufacturers, and those trying to make a little extra money for their families, to do business legally in the US.

I have read the CPSIA and there is no exception for quantities made, where the garments/products are made or anything else. To me, this means that grandma selling handmade baby blankets at the church bazaar is selling contraband if she is unable to produce the required safety certificate. It means that for artisans and small business in America one thing... unless you are a multi-million dollar company, you have no right doing business in the U.S. So much for the American dream.

February 10, 2009 is being dubbed "National Bankruptcy Day" by many experts in the apparel and toy industry. I expect that if this legislation is allowed to be enacted, it will affect everyone from port workers to parents looking for legal products. Millions of pieces of merchandise will be destroyed because it can't be legally sold, causing not only environmental problems, but impacting charities that can't accept donations without a safety certificate.

As you can see, this legislation is dangerous. I imagine that it was originally written with good intention. However, I can only hope that you will take action in defense of hard working American business owners and help us continue our ethical practices of making safe products. Please help to defend entreprenurial America!

Sincerely,
Katy Afruma
REgarding Peanut


Wednesday, November 26, 2008

October Leaves

I can't believe I forgot to post these pics...they're so cute!








Friday, November 14, 2008

Wanna Play Barbies?

Have you seen these commercials? I normally hate commercials, though since the end of the election, I'm certainly enjoying the change of advertisements. And, since I'm generally an emotional mess, the latest Barbie commercials have been tugging at my childhood memories. I know, it can, and often is, argued that Barbie is a little evil, and a lot bad influence, but maybe, with the advent of Bratz dolls, not actually so bad. Sure, she dresses kind of slutty (not as bad as Bratz), and sure, she's got big boobs (so do I, just not the teeny waist, dammit), and sure, she's got long legs (so she's tall, sue her), but really, it shouldn't be about looks.

Barbie, for all her faults, she's been a mom, an astronaut, a ballerina, a teacher, a doctor, a vet, a princess, a sister, a girlfriend, a wife, and now, I do believe, a single lady (though I'm sure she'll be a bride again, eventually). If taken in context, and without over-analyzing it, she can be a role model. Particularly if you, as a parent, are careful enough to teach your children about the importance of self-esteem, self-worth, and appreciating differences in people.

I was in Costco with RE a few days ago, and we were cruising the toy aisle. As we walked past the Barbies, all dressed in their holiday finery, she gasped and said, "Wow, mommy, those are fancy ladies!". I told her those were Barbies, and yes, they were indeed fancy. She looked at me, and replied, "Mommy, I'd like to play with those fancy Barbies." Good thing Nonna's got a giant box of my old Barbies that we'll be digging out when we go down in January.

I loved playing with Barbies. They truly allow children to create other worlds, fantastic worlds where anything can happen, and dammit, you can look FABulous doing it. My Barbies would drive their shoebox cars to the beach, to the mall, to the moon, and then, quite often, to prom. She'd dance with Ken, in her super fancy red heart dress, or maybe the yellow poufy one, and then usually, they'd have sex. Not quite sure how we sorted out as children that sex was a prom night activity, but we did, so they did. Barbie nursed GI Joe back to health after my little brother tortured them in various acts of war. Barbie was patient while I tried out new hairstyles, and sewed pants for her that no normal woman would have wanted to wear. I credit Barbie for helping me with so many of my sewing skills, it's almost funny.

So these commercials start with adult women talking about their memories of Barbies, when they got their first one, how they shared (or didn't) with their sisters, and how much they loved their dolls. It ends with a shot of little girls playing Barbies, and a voice over of a little girl saying, "Wanna Play Barbies?"

I so totally do. Do you? What's your favorite memory of Barbie (cause I know we all have one)?

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

One Happy Obama Mama

I'm surprised blogger is even working; I know so many people are out there doing what I am: telling their stories.

On this historic night, on this night that will be recorded in history books and web archives forever, everyone wants to put pen to paper (so to speak) about their own feeling on this election. If not for you readers to read, then for my own family to read someday. For my daughter to read in 20 years and know what she was like, what she did, on the day that the nation changed. The day our nation made a giant leap from a time when 40 years ago, a black man couldn't vote, when 100 years ago, a woman couldn't vote, to tonight, when we elect a black man as president.

I sobbed as I read his speech (missed it while working tonight). I'll no doubt sob when I watch it later when it shows up on youtube. I am struck not only by his eloquence, but his ability to speak to all people, Republican and Democrat, men and women, black, white, Asian, Hispanic and other world citizens. He speaks to all of us when he says that we can change.

We can, and we have.

"This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that's on my mind tonight's about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She's a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing: Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn't vote for two reasons -- because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

And tonight, I think about all that she's seen throughout her century in America -- the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can't, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.

At a time when women's voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs, a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.

When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.

She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that "We Shall Overcome." Yes we can.

A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination.

And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change."

I think tonight of not only this woman, who at 106 has seen more change in this world than you and I can even fathom. I think tonight of all the people I know who voted for the very first time in this election, because they finally felt it not only important enough to vote for change, but that they could actually affect that change. I think tonight of all the people who don't believe they can affect change, and to them, I say, Yes We Can. If you didn't vote today, I hope today's election, and the surprise that it's held will convince you to do so next time.

Tonight, November 4th, 2008, I think about how hopeful I am for the future. Hopeful that President-elect Obama will do what needs to be done. Hopeful that he'll face few obstacles in affecting the change he (and so many of us) desire. Hopeful that he'll be able to accomplish an economic turn around, an end to the current wars, and a positive environmental impact. Hopeful that he'll protect the rights of women (and men) who seek choices, whether those choices are about equal pay for jobs, whether or not to have a child, or a union. Hopeful that after 4 (or preferably, 8) years in office, he'll leave a country that I'm proud to offer up to RE, who will then be nearly 11 years old.

And speaking of her, since this blog is usually primarily about her, I'll tell you her thoughts of the day.

Mommy: Ry, are you ready? We're going to vote!

Ry: We're going on a boat?

M: Noooo, we're going to Vote. V. V. V.

R: Oh, Vote. Ok.

Get to polling station, very excited, because though I am a cynic, elections honestly make me swell with pride. And usually cry.

Get in, get stickers for us both, and set her up with a bag of goodies to play with while I vote.

R: What you doing, mommy?

M: Filling in bubbles.

R: On the boat?

M: Nope, kiddo. No boat. Vote. V. V. V.

R: Oh, vote. Can me see?

M: Sure. (put RE on back in Pikkolo so she can see over my shoulder)

R: Where bubbles come from mommy? There? (points to corner of voting booth)

M: Oh, shoot. Nope, no real bubbles, Ry. Just these bubbles, the circles on the page.

R: Oh.

So, all in all, while I was gushing left and right about how important it is to vote, and how our foremothers fought for our right to vote, she's sitting there pouting because not only was there no boat, but no bubbles either.

So, today, RE, I voted for you. I voted for my grandmothers, and great-grandmothers, and for all the women in my family who weren't able to vote, either because they were women, or because they were not yet American citizen. I take my citizenship seriously, though over the last 8 years I often joked about moving to Canada, and I take my ability to vote seriously. I choose not to take it for granted that people fought and died so that I could waltz into a polling station, in pants, with my two year old daughter, and cast my vote for change.

Tonight, I'm really proud to be an American. (cliche though it is)


Monday, November 03, 2008

Oooooh, Stars!

I love star ornaments...maybe it's because we don't really celebrate Christmas, persay, but rather, the holiday season and winter as a whole. Most of my tree is decorated with blue, silver and gold stars and balls.

I'm going to make some of these for my tree this year, and possibly to tie on gifts (if they end up being a quick craft).

Alyssa, I think you should make some of these with me...you can do them in your "spare" time.

Go out and vote.


"Rosa sat so Martin could walk. Martin walked so Obama could run. Obama is running so our children can fly."
So said a man on NPR last week.

I don't care who you vote for, but please, go out and vote.

For all the men, women and young people who fought for our right to do so, get out and vote.

(Yeah, I get all sentimental about voting. What can I say, I really am proud to be an American, no matter how stupid our elected officials sometimes are. At least I can say that without fear.)

White Chicken Chili...one of my favorites.

Afruma White Chicken Chili


2 cups diced onions
2 cups diced celery
5 garlic cloves, chopped
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1 pound chicken breast, cooked and diced
8 cups water (more like 5 or 6 if you're using canned beans)
1 bay leaf
1 (7-ounce) can chopped green chilies
1/2 teaspoon oregano
1/2 teaspoon cumin
1/2 teaspoon dry mustard
1/2 teaspoon basil
1/2 teaspoon Old Bay seasoning
4 tablespoons chicken base
1 jalapeno, chopped (remove the seeds for less spice)
2 pounds white beans, soaked overnight (or, you can use 4 cans of beans, and adjust the cooking times, but it's better with real beans)
1/2 cup heavy cream
1 cup shredded carrots
16 ounces sour cream

Saute onion, celery, and garlic in oil until tender, about 5 minutes. In a large stockpot add chicken, water, bay leaf, chiles, oregano, cumin, dry mustard, basil, Old Bay, chicken base, and jalapeno and simmer for 1 1/2 hours . Add the drained beans and heavy cream and simmer for 1 hour, or until the beans are tender (30 min if using canned beans). Garnish soup with carrots and sour cream.

We often serve this over baked potatoes, but it's equally good on it's own with sourdough bread, or, my personal favorite, in a bread bowl. Yum. The only caution is that this makes a TON of chili. Like, enough to feed about 15 people. We're currently testing out how it survives in the freezer, so I'll update once I have some feedback on it.

Mac and Cheese

Homemade mac and cheese is so much better than the boxed stuff (though that has a VERY special place in my heart).

Enjoy! We did!

Cheesy Baked Shells and Broccoli


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Box of whatever pasta you like (tonight it was mini penne)
1 tablespoon butter
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 cups whole milk (works fine with 2%)
2 cups coarsely grated Cheddar or Gruyýre (8 ounces) (or a mix of both)
1/8 teaspoon ground nutmeg (whoops, forgot this; turned out fine)
Kosher salt and black pepper
1 16-ounce bag frozen broccoli florets, thawed (make sure they're thawed; this is crucial)

Heat broiler. Cook the pasta according to the package directions.

Meanwhile, heat the butter in a large pot over medium heat. Add the flour and cook, stirring, for 2 minutes. Whisk in the milk and cook, stirring occasionally, until slightly thickened, 4 to 5 minutes.

Add 1 1/2 cups of the cheese and stir until melted. Stir in the nutmeg, 3/4 teaspoon salt, and 1⁄4 teaspoon pepper.

Add the pasta and broccoli and toss to combine. Transfer to a broilerproof 8-inch square or another 1 1/2-quart baking dish. Sprinkle with the remaining 1⁄2 cup of cheese. Broil until golden, 3 to 4 minutes.



Yield: Makes 4 servings (um, yeah, makes WAY more than 4 servings, at least 6)

CALORIES 697 ; FAT 26g (sat 15g); CHOLESTEROL 82mg; CARBOHYDRATE 78g; CALORIES FROM FAT 34%; SODIUM 650mg; PROTEIN 34g; FIBER 6g; SUGAR 9g

Real Simple, OCTOBER 2008

I'm such a list maker...

I have a huge list of handmade pressies for the holidays this year, as I am primarily planning to do a handmade holiday.

I can't, of course, really blog a whole lot about it until after the holidays, as I expect that, on occasion, my friend's read this blog. But I will tell what I'm making for the kids...they can't read yet.

Several of the boys will be getting this DARLING go-fish set.

Most of the girls will be getting either Black Apple dolls or Wee Wonderfuls dolls.

RE and a few of the other kids may also get a set of wooden Little People.

These coffee cozies are on the list as well as some hand dyed, hand painted scarves (these are all me, and I'll post a tute when I get the fabric).

Plus, I want to make RE another tutu, more of a skirt type one that she can wear when she feels like it, and with some regularity. I've also got plans for a small dollhouse for her, plus, of course, people to go in it. I bought her a big one, but had already bought this smaller thing, and so her dolls will just have a casita as well. For her birthday, I'm making her a playhouse table tent out of a great bedspread I found at Target.

Of course, I've still got the curtains, pillows and paint trim to finish, plus, you know, raise a kid, run a household, keep a small business afloat, teach childbirth ed, and watch a few other kids.

It's no wonder I make all these lists.

Halloween is over...

And RE really enjoyed herself this year. Mommy and daddy felt a bit harried by it all, but she had a blast, and asked the next day if she could to "trick or treat" again. The candy was a big draw for her. We went out with her bestie, Owen, and my dear friend, Linds and had a blast. The neighborhood was great...lots of people got way into it and did haunted houses. Owen could have cared less, but Ryan was scared out of her mind. I asked her if she wanted to be brave like Owen, and she said, "nope, not brave mommy, afraid." Sad.


But her superhero costume rocked, and I've reminded her that although we can't have candy like that all the time, we CAN dress up whenever we want.

Which brings me to Luke's birthday party, the other event of the weekend. To which she wore her tutu. Not the Halloween one, but her regular one (I know, she has more than one? Well, yeah, she has 3 or 4). I asked her if she wanted to wear a party dress or regular clothes to the party, and she wanted to wear a party dress. Great, I though. A chance to bust out some of those rarely worn foufou dresses she's got. I pulled a few out, and she said, no, and went over to the dress up bin and grabbed this giant, poufy, pink tutu. "This mommy. I wear this." Right on. I've joked for months now that I secretly can't wait for her to request to wear a tutu (or any other slightly ridiculous costume) out and about, and it finally happened. And though I may have pretended to be a little whatever about it, I was more than a little thrilled. It is socially unacceptable for me to wear a tutu out in public, so let the kid do it until she can't!



And speaking of social acceptability, we've been discussing when it is and is not appropriate to pick one's nose. We've outline that it's OK to pick in the car, the house and bathrooms. It is NOT ok to pick in stores, restaurants, or other people's houses. It's a process. And it's gross. It's got to be kept to a minimum.

On the home front, the house is a hole right now...covered in blue underlayment, half a floors worth of wood, and the rest plywood and random furniture strewn about. M is going to try to get things wrapped up this week, then we can put furniture back this weekend, paint the trim next week, and be done with it all by Thanksgiving? Then I'll have to get cracking on the pillows and curtains. I need to have a sew-along with some friends, cause I need motivation!
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